The reason so many must turn to extraneous scenarios or kinks or additional add on partners in their sex lives is that they are often trying to recreate an extraordinary sensation that is missing from their every day lives. The bedroom becomes an escape room from the banality they are experiencing on an every day level. Sexual energy is very much an opposite balancing energy or reflection to what we are feeling in our daily life, often from roles in work or home life. Where the most powerful in a board room must be passive in a dungeon, or the overtired housewife must play powerful domme in her fantasy life, is often an attempt at sexual energy trying to balance the Soul’s chi. The more outrageous the sexual scenario seems, the more certain you can be that the need for something else, be it real intimacy, nurturing, attention, or understanding is for that person to use their sexuality as a means of returning to Self. People become objects of unmet needs, substitutes of the creative fire found in their every day life. Passion is rarely something found in an alter ego of one’s true essence. If you must become someone else, something else or find someone else, you have left your Soul. You have joined the other Naysayers of your Life Story who disbelieved your sui generis, the very unique essence of spirit that contains your body. Anyone who is living a distinctly passionate every day life rarely needs to turn to external sources in their sex life to create a believable Love scene. It is not a costume or particular fantasy that IS the thrill of ecstasy...it is your essence that fuses your entire life force within your own body that cannot help but touch that of another’s body, like a lightning strike, one is shaken and experienced to another state within the already existing state which is YOU. The most arousing, profound orgasm rarely comes when imaginary characters kidnap the Soul’s body to recreate Heaven elsewhere. It is when Desire and Passion come face to face with your Raw expression of how your Ordinary is already the Real Extraordinary...#FarrahNaykaAshline #DakiniGoddessofMarrakech